My Story

Well I have 3 beautiful girls that I pretty much have to take care of on my own. My 2 oldest girls, Andrea n Annabelle, their dad has helped some n he does at least get them every other weekend n all that, I am thankful for that. But he has gotten to where he tries to make me feel sorry for him all the time n he wont pay any child support. For over a yr he has paid half of what he should pay for reasons to take it out on me n for the last 5 months he hasn't paid anything at all. He is married again n has a new baby n 2 new step kids n makes sure they have what they need but not his own daughters. Its really hard trying to provide for 2 kids by yourself. I know that I cannot give them what all they need but I do try my best to give them what I can. I make sure they don't do without. I will do without just to make sure they have what they need cause they mean the world to me. I finally get to Rodney through DHR n boy does he get pissed but oh well its his fault.Im hoping soon that I will start getting some money from him again but I guess I just have to wait and see. As I see it He helped make these kids he needs to help take care of them. It shouldn't be just my place to do it alone. Most guys just dont see it like woman do. They dont realize how hard it can really be being a single mom and trying to take care of kids. Men are just sorry if they cant take care of their kids. They weren't asked to be brought into this world n then crapped on. Kids deserve so much better than that. I have a newborn baby (Makenzie)now with this guy named Blake that is really a piece of crap. She is almost 3 weeks old n he wont even have much to do with her at all. Its really sorry n it breaks my heart for her. I don't want her growing up without a dad or him coming in and out of her life n hurting her. That's not fair. My dad hurt me way to much growing up n I never wanted that for my kids. There were so many times when I just really needed my dad to be there n he didnt care enough to do that. He made me feel so unloved, like I was never good enough to be his daughter. I dont want my kids to ever have that feeling. Little girls need their daddy's in their lives. How can someone look at such a precious child n not want to bond with her and love on her and want to help take care of her. I cant stand how heartless people can really be when it comes to their kids. It doesn't matter if you plan a child or not, its ur responsibility to take care of them cause they cant do it alone. They will regret it one day for missing out so much on their kids lives n not being the dad they should have been. And if they dont then they are just really heartless.Specially when their kids are not going to want anything to do with them. Just like I do with my dad. He pretty much is just a sperm donor to me not my dad. All he cares bout is his self. Not his kids or any of his grand kids. Blake is pretty much a sperm donor too n I would rather him just stay away if all he plans to do is hurt her. I know that he isn't going to do anything to help take care of her cause he hasn't done anything so far n he don't help take care of the first kid he has already. He pretty much has no rights to her right now n I would like to keep it that way. I think that if he just stays away that it would be better on her so she don't get hurt by him but who knows. It would be nice to get child support from him to help me take care of his kid but I really dont see that happening. I really don't like seeing my kids get hurt. My oldest ones have been hurt a good bit already by their dad and it breaks my heart. Andrea already don't care to have much to do with her dad already cause she can see how mean he really is. I want my kids to decide on their own bout how they feel when it comes to their dads, I wouldn't ever talk bout them and make it harder for the girls.I just wish that guys would step up to the plate n help take care of the kids they make.One day it will come back on them n bite them in the booty. I basically wanted to write on here bout what Im going through n maybe give a few helpful tips for single parents to help with their kids.And maybe i can learn a few things myself to help me with mine.